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I pray that you have a dream, a vision for your life that burns inside of you, motivating your decisions, determining what you say \u201cyes,\u201d or \u201cno\u201d to. I also pray that you would be able to loosen the death grip you might have on it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

About a year ago I came to the beginning of the end of struggling over my dreams. I didn\u2019t even realize how much I was fighting. I thought I was fighting for<\/em> my dreams. Turns out I was just fighting for control. Can you relate?\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

Sure, we must have an \u201call-in\u201d attitude when it comes to our dreams. The vision of what can be will define your decisions and choices. It will set boundaries that determine what this life<\/i> will look like. To also be able to hold that vision loosely means that we understand the difference between the dream, the gifts we have been entrusted with to reach that dream, and who we are. Your value is not determined by what you do for God. Your value is set, and the highest price was paid.<\/span><\/p>\n

What I learned about my struggle from a spoonful of almond butter.<\/span><\/h4>\n

The other day I had a jar of chocolate nut butter out. I scooped some out on a spoon for Jordan, then
got my own spoon and sat down with her at the table. When Jordan\u2019s spoonful was gone she asked me for more, since I had the jar. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cSure, hand me your spoon.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

She started to whine and cry, \u201cNo, want mooooooore buuuuuuuuuuuuter. Give me buteeeeeeer.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

I repeated my request. <\/span><\/p>\n

She repeated hers. <\/span><\/p>\n

This exchange happened a few more times until she reluctantly handed over her spoon. I filled her spoon with the nut butter and handed the full spoon back to her. I wanted to give her more, I just needed the spoon.\u00a0<\/em>I knew she wouldn’t be able to get a really good scoop by herself, and might even drop the jar, and end up not getting any.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This is what I mean when I say I struggled over my dreams. I would pray for more in an area, then God would ask me to give me an area of my life and I would say, \u201cNoooooooo! My dreaaaaaaam!\u201d If I gave God\u00a0that thing,\u00a0<\/em>then what would I use to get closer to the goal? How would I be able to accomplish all that burned in my heart? What would I be without that? <\/span><\/p>\n

There began a point about a year ago when I just said, \u201cI trust you.\u201d At this moment I was able to turn it all over to him. I trust you with my life. I trust you with my family. I trust you with my dreams. I trust that my value is in you, not in any gift, title, position, or recognition<\/em>. Then a funny thing happened. I began to be filled with more<\/i>. God just needed me to hand over the spoon, the tool that I was holding, so that he could put more in it. I had been asking for the jar. The jar wasn’t mine to ask for, but God was more than willing to give me all that I needed from the jar. <\/span><\/p>\n

The silly interaction between me and my toddler that day helped this truth take root in my heart.<\/span><\/h4>\n

I was grasping for a desire with all of my strength while begging God to fill it, fulfill it. God wasn\u2019t withholding or trying to take it away from me \u2013 he was saying, \u201cSure, hand it over and I\u2019ll fill it. I\u2019ll expand it. I\u2019ll give you even more than you even knew to ask for.\u201d<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

I still work hard. I still pursue the dream. I pursue it now because I value the giver, not because I need the value that the gift would give me.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

So, dear friends, let\u2019s stop being toddler Christians. Trust God. Hand over the spoon. Maybe he\u2019ll give you a better tool, or a different tool. He might fill it with something other than what you were asking for, or something better than you thought was possible. Can you be okay with that? Trust God. He is not withholding \u2013 he is generous and giving. He is not punishing \u2013 he is waiting for your partnership and cooperation. He is not impatient \u2013 he is faithful and will wait for as long as it takes for you to hand over that spoon. And He won’t even eat all the nut butter if it takes you too long to hand over the spoon. \ud83d\ude09\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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[5] Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. [6] Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take. Proverbs 3:5-6<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Is there an area you are having a hard time trusting God, and handing over the spoon?<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

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